Jesus said in John Chapter 10 verse 10
The thief cometh not,but for to steal, kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
So many times we blame our problems on God or most likely on those that betray us or do us wrong in some way when the truth is our real enemy the one who is behind all of our pain is the thief, the devil. Don't be vengeful on the woman who stole your husband she was nothing more than a pawn in the hands of your real enemy. He is the one who really attacked you. He's the one set out to destroy us and doesn't he know just the buttons to push. Know instead of trying to get even with people or mad at God who loves us so much he sent his only son to die for us we need to get up dust ourselves off and make satan wish he had never ever touched our hearts and our homes!! How do you do that? You do that by working for the Lord greater than you ever have, by witnessing and telling others the good news. You know what truly the harvest is great but the laborers are few. How many good Christian people do you know who truly work for the Lord every day? You know we spend our lives working so hard for the things we want and often never obtain when I truly believe if we would spend our efforts trying to build the kingdom of God and really get a burden for other peoples souls we would have more than we ever imagined. I mean after all the Bible does say that to lose your life is to save it.